Showing posts with label Our Neighborhood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Our Neighborhood. Show all posts

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Ray Bradbury - "At play in the fields of the Lord"

I ran across this interesting article on the life and philosophy of Ray Bradbury. He's an original.

Ray's best friend growing up was Ed Barrerra, who was once my landlord.  Ed was an orphan, taken in by the family of his future wife in Los Angeles. Ray and Ed sometimes skipped school and went to the lots in Hollywood and hung around on movie sets, or sneaked into the theater. Ed's wife, Clara, thought that Ray was "crazy" when they were young - when he had some of the wild ideas which were later developed in his science fiction books. He didn't have as much schooling as you might expect for a famous writer.

Both he and Ed were drafted during World War II and went to Europe. Ray stopped driving after the war. When he came to visit Ed at our little duplex in the barrio, it was with a chauffeur, in a big cream-colored limousine. He often wore white shorts and knee socks.

He was a faithful friend to Ed as Ed's health deteriorated from rheumatoid arthritis and Parkinson's disease. I saw him a few times, and he always seemed to have some new and different project in the works. I'm happy to hear that he's still around and still has a zest for life.

Speaking of "zest", we have some zesty and delicious summer fruits on now. Descriptions here.


Monday, July 5, 2010

Independence Day, Observed


Well, they're not fireworks, but they go well with an Independence Day celebration. We've got some fruit, too. We had to keep the dogs calm with the fireworks in the neighborhood last night, and will again tonight. Otherwise, it's been a fairly quiet holiday so far. The Fourth fell on Sunday this year, so today is Independence Day, Observed.  We did hear some fine thoughts about our country yesterday.

The forecast is for 99 degrees today - kind of hot for complex activities. But that doesn't keep us from being thankful for our favorable circumstances.

Here are some links concerning the Declaration of Independence and Independence Day. For your enjoyment and contemplation. They include some ideas about making your holiday more meaningul.  There's some fine writing at the links, both historical and current, plus some videos.  I was especially interested in what Wretchard, an Australian, said about the Declaration.  Sometimes it's easy to take our country and our freedom for granted.  We need to fight this impulse.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Abundance, June 2010

Gilly has influenced me to start adding photos to my blog.  She posts so many photos which remind us to look for beauty in the world.   Ditto Sissy Willis, who likes introverts and cats, among other people, animals and things.

My first photo here features some abundance from our garden.  Part of the early harvest this year.  It always seems a little bit miraculous to me that we can grow things like this in the garden:


Details about the early harvest can be found here. Follow the links if you like.

I cooked most of the squashes shown above, plus a few more, on Sunday for Munch and Mingle after church. People loved it. I made two variations on this recipe: one with bacon, topped with Colby/Jack cheese, and one with an Ancho chile, ground red pepper and Pepper Jack cheese.

Our little grand-nephew didn't eat any of the squash, though he was less picky about the desserts. The abundance of food in our country makes pickiness possible. I took him to Target on Saturday to keep him occupied while his Dad was at a wedding. He spent more than two hours testing all the demonstration toys with a button, lever or electronic gadget. He wanted them all. Had to settle for a yo-yo. Abundance can be frustrating when you're five and can't have it all. But he is learning to appreciate some more important things in life.

In a discussion with Uncle David about who should get to watch his choice of TV show, he said, "Uncle David, today is not about you. Today is about me." He later modified this statement based on the reaction he got. And he made sure I saved some ice cream for his Dad when I got some for him.

Stephen R. Covey says that small children share more easily when they have a sense that they really possess their toys.  It's like they cannot give what they do not have. I haven't quite figured out how this would apply to control of a TV remote, however.

MORE ABUNDANCE AND GENEROSITY

Medical Miracles: Our friend Hala, in Hawaii, told us that our friend Alice, in Texas, had normal tests 100 days after her bone marrow transplant for a rare blood disease. What a miraculous procedure.

A baby hears for the first time with a cochlear implant. A young woman hears for the first time in many years. Astounding. A lot of people engaged in a great deal of work to make those moments possible.

Other Miracles:  The power of a simple smile at the right time.

Some cautionary thoughts on preserving conditions which allow for continued abundance in a society: End the War on Wisdom. Having a good heart is a wonderful thing. Having a good heart informed by timeless wisdom is a much better, and more difficult, achievement.

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Happy Easter

Not a bad Easter Day here.  Nothing earth-shaking, which is usually a good thng.   Conference was on TV - some things to ponder, and some lovely music, too.  Hopeful music - before, during and after the conference sessions.  Including a choir performance in a big arena in a spectacular setting, which I had not seen before.

I fixed dinner for a bunch of men:  David, our nephew James, Ken, Elder Black and Elder Sanders.  The potato salad seems to have been the most popular item.  Kind of early in the year for potato salad.  It was the only thing I made today which required more than minimal effort.

James has moved in with us for a while, and has just gotten a job with a very irregular schedule.  But it's work.  We've also been in a mess around the house, moving things around for James, and for David's wall re-finishing projects.  David and James installed a new double door in the media room Friday.  The old one was poorly made.  It did not stand up to the weather.  And Troy the Giant Dog scratching when he wanted attention didn't improve the door's appearance, either.

It rained a little today, and more is forecast for tomorrow.  We can use it.   The air is fresh.  All the animals are O.K.  I got to talk on speaker phone with Keira, Wally, Lorilee and Sherm.  They're a little surprised about our tomato  project this year.   Lorilee talked about how people in Russia often leave the city for  country houses - tiny to large dachas -  in summer.  This may help account for the numerous open-pollinated tomato varieties from the former USSR.  Additionally, I imagine that with the food distribution problems in the old USSR, a lot of people informally shared tomato seeds with each other.  And the USSR did have some formal plant-breeding programs as well. 

Yesterday, our new neighbors brought over tamales, grilled meat and birthday cake (in three separate trips) from the big birthday bash held for their niece, a toddler.  The party featured big strings of ballons, rows of tables and chairs on the recently-poured patio slab and a bounce house for the kids.  The party got started early in the day and was pretty sizable by evening.  There were follow-up activities today for people who stayed overnight.  It's so interesting, this Mexican affection for huge parties for tiny people.  I went over for a few minutes.  It was windy, but the men barbecuing and the kids in the bounce house didn't seem to mind.  Nice people.

David and James are both becoming attached to the man of the house, also named David.  My David has helped them roof the house,  and he either helped with or lent them tools for other construction projects.  The neighbor David has sprayed weeds on the street side of our property and has introduced us to some new drip irrigation equipment.  He calls me "Mrs. Carolyn".  Or "Mrs. Caro".  Now that he knows me better.  "Caro" is my name to several friends in town.   They just all seem to decide eventually to call me that,   

It's nice to have neighbors again.  Neighbors who act like neighbors.  We have a lot to be thankful for today, especially with the message of Easter added in.     

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Happy New Year!

Tending skittish dogs tonight - they're afraid of fireworks and firearms. Not very New Years Eve-ish. But no matter. There's a "blue moon" tonight: the second full moon of the month. We can listen to Ella Fitzgerald.

We've had an interesting week: the furnace went out on Christmas Eve day and David did a not-to-subtle reindeer imitation on Christmas morning - stomping on the roof when he got stuck after the ice re-froze while he was up there. I squirted it down again and he made it off the roof safely - only slipping once. He needed a part, so our heat was mostly from baking in the oven and from a little parabolic space heater in the bathroom. It was almost enough. Makes you think about how much you heat the house up in the summer when you turn on the oven. David got the part Monday - 5 days (well, counting part-days) of a cool-ish house. I was glad we weren't in North Dakota.

My Christmas morning heating project was baking cornbread. David and Ken had some with pinto beans for breakfast. I made cornbread dressing and marinated broccoli salad to take to David's Mom and Dad's for Christmas Dinner. Prime rib, 4 kinds of pie, etc. Lots of people there. Lots of conversation. Since I can't eat corn, I made some bread dressing for myself with a little leftover bread from Christmas, fresh sage, onions, celery and chicken broth, but I didn't take it to dinner. There was plenty of food there.

Since I got some people cardamom pods for Christmas, I made some orange-cardamom pumpkin bread on Saturday to warm up the house, and some butter-pecan applesauce bread (recipe needs a little work). I decided that a tiny mortar and pestle was not sufficient for crushing cardamom seeds, and I discovered that tapping it with a hammer in a heavy plastic bag (from a cracker box) works much better. Feels sort of primitive to go out to the garage to beat spices to powder. But it's much less primitive than the actual primitive task of grinding grains with a smooth rock. We take so many things for granted.

We've got ham for tomorrow. I got blackeyed peas and a Pasilla pepper for this New Year's Salad.

The doggie logistics have dumbed me down for now. Don't feel like doing much. At the moment, I have Lucky and Troy. David has Maggie. Our geriatric dogs, Sparky and Dottie, are getting deaf and so far they're O.K. in their usual hangouts. Sparky may need to come in later. Little Buddy is not afraid of the noise, and stays in the big doghouse with his little heater. Things are fine, but not exactly festive.

I'm not feeling too philosophical right at the moment, either. But I found some interesting images and music before Christmas which you might like. And then some information about Hanukkah, if you're up for a little deeper thought. Or, for a more personal topic, an Alternative to New Years Resolutions, The Uberlist.

Hope everyone has a great year.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Thanking Our Veterans

A Veteran knows things: He knows life is precious, because he’s seen
life cut short. He knows life is strange, because those that should die
live and those who have the most life sometimes die. He knows life is
not easily wrapped up in a box philosophically. He knows that plans
fail. He knows there’s such a thing as luck. A veteran chooses his hard
lessons and walks toward them.
Veterans at the World War II Memorial in Washington D.C. The video is kind of hard to get through without a tear or two. They were brought to the memorial by an organization dedicated to providing such trips. An American volunteer organization which de Toqueville might recognize as similar to the voluntary organizations of yesteryear which he thought were such an important feature of American culture. I expect that this organization would accept a donation from you.

Two songs, one for WWII and Korean vets, the other for Vietnam Vets. More tears for me, especially knowing some of the experiences David's Dad went through. And the trials that others in our families and among our friends have gone through. The website supports training for companion dogs for disabled veterans. Such a great idea. They accept donations. Or, there's this bipartisan effort, started on 11/11, to encourage 11 million Americans to donate 11 dollars to veteran support groups.

The VFW in our little town have been out handing out little poppies for donations for a couple of days now. I first saw them on the anniversary of the fall of the Berlin Wall. I always donate and pick up a couple of poppies, even though the fabric ones of today aren't as nice as the paper ones, handmade, they used to hand out.

Once, on a night train with Yvonne to Paris, I woke up in the early morning to see a field of poppies out the train window, just like the poppies in Flanders Fields. Kind of made the poem real to me. Europe has seen so much war over the centuries and suffered through two horrific wars in the last century. Right where I was at that moment, there may have been a battle in the past. Certainly there were battles not far from there. But the field looked peaceful from my train window in the dawn light.

I know it's not Memorial Day, but Veteran's Day also makes me think of Grandpa Smith, a chaplain in World War I. Flanders is, of course, in Belgium, from whence he was writing.

Hope your Veterans Day today is rich and meaningful.

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Happy Independence Day

The "safe and sane" fireworks sales have been going on for a few days. "Free vacation package with every $300 purchase". Wow. And people have also been getting some fireworks which are not so "safe and sane", as usual for our rural area. If you're going to have a party, might as well make some noise.

Our two biggest dogs, Sparky and Troy, are the most afraid of fireworks. But Sparky's starting to lose his hearing. He came in Thursday night but stayed out last night. He'll probably need to come in again tonight. Troy gets frantic at the first booms. He doesn't try to get in the bathtub like Sparky used to do, though.

We've been dealing with ennervating heat and even more ennervating bureaucracy this week. Independence starts to sound good.

And so many of our friends and family have had health and personal challenges in the last two or three of weeks. In our little church branch, we haven't really had enough people to rally 'round those with emergencies. But we've done a lot of tag-teaming. Time to take a break to observe the 4th of July.

I've put up a Fourth of July post on history (good links on Lincoln and the Founders), also touching on current political themes, here.

Recipes and garden updates are here. Lots of tomatoes and squash in the garden right now. We've got Santa Rosa and Burgundy plums, and the July Elberta peaches are coming on. Even with all the problems in life, there remain a lot of things to celebrate. Have a great Fourth.

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Medical Miracles

One of our friends nearly died this week. Her mother, a nurse, did not expect her to survive her surgery at Stanford after a part of her intestines died. Sounds similar to something my grandmother and one of my uncles died from. But she pulled through. Techniques for this surgery may be getting better. She still has a blood clot in her lung.

She came home today (a painful trip) and looks pretty good, considering. We are so happy for her and for her family, especially her husband and her kids

We had some anxious times as David's dad recovered from
open heart surgery earlier this year. His recovery was a really long haul, and they say it will be a year before he's fully back to normal. He's doing much better now, and got through out-patient knee surgery pretty well recently. Interesting descriptions of open heart surgery and other medical miracles here.

Friday, June 5, 2009

Yay! One Puppy to a New Home, Graduation Day

This morning, a young black puppy showed up in our front yard, and F. put him in the side yard with the last puppy who showed up. Troy and Maggie thought that this was an outrage. Especially Maggie. A difficult doggie day.

Fortunately, K. came by in the afternoon, and later brought a friend by who took the little black puppy home, because it looks a lot like a Black Labrador puppy. He hopes it will be a retriever. He has prepared his big back yard for the puppy and everything. One day turn-around on a stray puppy. A record.

Our poor little tan and white puppy was left behind. He is still looking for a friend to play with full-time. He liked the little black puppy. I play with him in the morning and bring him in to visit Lucky in the evening, but it's not enough, and Lucky has not quite accepted that he's part of the pack. The puppy already knows how to retrieve, but will only be able to retrieve little things when full-grown. His paws are about the same size as the smaller, much younger black puppy's paws. He's getting kind of long and skinny, but not much taller. Cute as anything. Somewhere, there is a little kid or another dog who's going to be glad to have him for a playmate.

Local kids graduated from high school today. I heard the noise as the ceremony ended while out shopping. it rained off and on, but I think everyone came through the graduation O.K. Better than 106 degrees in the stadium. We're proud of our little Branch's big scholarship winner.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

June already

Well, we're mostly over our respiratory infections. I just have a slight cough now. We've been doing a lot of paperwork. David helped his Dad on the day he had knee surgery. He's doing better with his recovery from open-heart surgery.

Our weather started cooling down last week, and we had a freak storm with high winds and lightning which scared the dogs, especially big old Sparky. He had to hang out in the laundry room for a while. We weren't hit by the full force of the storm. Some locations were warned to expect hail the size of a quarter. We heard about a security system fried by a power outage and surge. Our region seems to be prone to these fast-moving, intense storms from the East in the summer.

We had a relaxed, casual Branch party last week, and I took lemon cookies from cake mix. Very quick and easy. Popular. Remind me to
post the recipe. It was an adult party. I was interested in who chose to go swimming. A mother and daughter who are kind of sporadic in their church attendance, and an older woman who walks with a walker. Nice to see her in the water.

Last night was the Pinewood Derby for the Cub Scouts. A lot of adults in the community put a lot of work into this little event. The kids were excited. A brother and sister team just a little older than the Cubbies judged who crossed the finish line first. A friend suggested that next year, I need to prepare a car of my own for this race. it would probably be fun.

On my kitchen and garden blog, I've posted a report on apricots and our first tomato from the garden, and also a recipe for yummy, down-home Okie Squash and Tomatoes.

On the Culture and Political front, I've put up posts on American Values (Prager University), Andrew Breitbart and Hollywood, Newsweek, Playboy, the General Motors bankruptcy and the 20th anniversary today of the Tiananmen Square Massacre. Take a look around if you like.

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Neighborhoods and "Church Neighborhoods"

Last Sunday, we heard stories from the history of our little branch of the Church. Stories of faith and of work to build up the church where there had been no church organization before. And especially, we heard wonderful stories about how people helped each other.

One of the strengths of our Church at this time in history is that it provides organized ways for people to learn how to be good neighbors. Sort of like neighbors in physical neighborhoods were a generation or two ago. Or maybe we're supposed to even become more than the typical old-fashioned good neighbor eventually.

This occurred to me as I read this piece, in which the author attempts to answer the question, "Where Went the Neighborhood"? He made the interesting point that, when Christ gave us the parable of the Good Samaritan, people had a better idea what good neighbors do. And not only was the Samaritan a good neighbor, but he also enlisted the Innkeeper as a good neighbor.

We're a little short on close neighbors in our neighborhood right now, with two empty houses nearby. One is in foreclosure, but that's another story. We still see Emma and her granddaughter frequently. Once in a while I talk to the neighbors up the street who have the rat terrier which is so interesting to our dogs. Being at the edge of town, we've had people show uo when they really needed help in the past, and we still get people stopping by for directions or help in finding lost dogs. But we seldom even see most of the people in our physical neighborhood. They seem to want it that way.

We do much better with members of the Church. But even in the Church, being a neighbor seems to take more effort than it used to. In Relief Society, we heard from Nonie about how when her children were young, all the members of the ward rallied around a family in crisis to help them through the crisis. But now, it seems like just about every family has a crisis of some sort. It often takes a special effort to share the joys and sorrows of others and to help each other with sudden problems or even routine, everyday needs. Sometimes we manage to do this spontaneously, sometimes through a deliberate individual effort and other times through an organized effort. Many people act as wonderful neighbors by consistently and prayerfully carrying out their Church callings, without fuss or fanfare, despite challenges in those callings.

But we're still not as neighborly as Church members were in the past, I think. Sometimes it seems like we're just overwhelmed. I have decided that I need to pay just a little more attention to those who aren't living in the ideal nuclear family situation - the widowed and the fatherless, people who are single for any reason. And to watch for families which run into difficulties. It's an especially great feeling when we can all rally 'round them even though we are having problems of our own. To "love 'em up", as Dennis Prager would say.

We may need similar help from time to time. And none of us is immune to becoming the man at the side of the road in the parable.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Not the Blossom Trail, but close

Yesterday, David and I had an appointment in Fresno. On the way up, we saw orchards of peaches and nectarines in full bloom, hundreds of acres in various shades of pink. The almonds had largely dropped their petals, and plums were in various stages of bloom to green. There was a light wind, and white cumulus clouds were overhead, a relatively rare sight here. You could see the snow in the Sierras. A beautiful drive. It's nearly peak season to follow the blossom trail.

Most of our own peaches and nectarines are blooming now, too. Peaches and nectarines have not been my most successful fruits. I've posted some new information on peach and nectarine varieties and culture here.

In Fresno, we saw smoke from a big fire, and as we approached home, another ugly, dark gray plume of smoke. As we got close, it looked like it was coming from about where our house is. We started to think about how to get Lucky out of the house. Then a police car in front of us went past our street to regulate traffic on the next block. Fire engines started speeding in. Our house was not on fire. The fire seemed to be coming from a yard where there are frequent recreational bonfires, plus very loud music. We haven't gone over to investigate whether a structure was involved. We hope that it wasn't a housefire. We are thankful that it wasn't OUR house on fire.

Later in the evening, the wind came up, clouds turned black and we had a thunderstorm accompanied by rain. Sparky was insistent on coming in from the garage to be with Maggie, Troy and Lucky. Our biggest dogs are the biggest wimps when it comes to thunderstorms. Dottie laid in a cupboard in the garage on some black trash bags to which she has become attracted. I ordered them years ago from a charity. She tore the box apart to use the bags as nesting material. David moved them to a cupboard, so Dottie moved in on top of them. But the dogs were happy after the storm passed, and we needed the rain.

The biggest news is that David's dad finally went home yesterday, to a wild greeting from his little Boston Terrier, Prissy. She no longer needs to hop the fence to search for him (not that she will necessarily give this activity up). Recovery from his surgery has been a long haul for Dad, and for his wife. It was a good day.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Looking for Rudolph

Ready for a few bits of fun? Via Tim Blair: This dog gives us an idea what our Dotty might have been like before David brought her home, already an old lady. This dog also reminds us of the exuberance of our dear, departed Snickers. Snickers started out as an ugly adolescent, but turned into a handsome adult Queensland/Black Lab mix, a black and white negative image of a Dalmatian, with a little more fur, and a white tip on his tail. We considered sending him to Civil Engineering school, as he enthusiastically dug tunnels in the sand, with only the tip of his tail showing. When too exhausted, he would come into the garage to rest for a few minutes, then leap back out to continue digging. He had full faith that he could dig faster than any gopher or ground squirrel.

Snickers loved to romp like the dog in the video on runs through the fields, but he was surprised at the squishy ground at the bottom of an almost-empty canal. In his only encounter with snow, he took great joy at biting snowflakes. He would have loved a deep snowfall.

We have never had a cat like the happy Australian one in this video. Though our little princess-cat Darla will play with a trickle of water from the bathroom faucet. She still likes to sleep in the bathroom sink, but doesn't get much chance to do so anymore, with Maggie the Warrior Queen and Troy the Giant Dog limiting her indoor time. And to add insult to injury, the little half-starved Chihuahua adopted by our neighbors (young men with no clue how to care for a dog) has decided to take over one of the heated kitty boxes - the one on our porch. Even though I set up one for him on the neighbors' porch. Incidentally, if anyone needs a quiet little black Chihuahua with big ears, he is available. He likes other animals but is a little slow to trust new men. We are over our legal limit for dogs (we fudge by having 2 lots).

My favorite of the adored, but seriously annoyed, Japanese cats pictured at the link to this post is the froggy cat.

One commenter speculated that these cats are looking daggers because, "I think they’re actually the species that invented style."

Remember these rules (from the Japanese site) for dressing cats:

1. You need to dress a cat. And you will say to a cat together with a family. "It has changed just for a moment". [ "it being very dear" or ] You will pass pleasant one time.

2. If a family and a cat become fortunate, you will take a commemorative photo! Therefore, please photo your cat lovelily with much trouble.

3. If it finishes taking a photograph, you will make it remove clothes from a cat immediately. You will say then, without forgetting the language of gratitude to a cat. "-- be flooded -- a way -- good -- having done one's best -- ! -- "

4. And if you want your cat to look like a Beloved, Merry Rudolph, Also remember . . .

I think I'll stick to a few kitty and doggy treats to make our pets feel loved this Christmas.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Living Life Every Day

Blogger Dean Barnett has died of Cystic Fibrosis. He was one of those people who made the most of life even in the face of tremendous challenges. He wasn't shy about taking on an intellectual argument. But he also wrote a tribute to a Lefty blogger with whom he deeply disagreed when the latter died last year, also at the age of 41. Dean Barnett looked at his challenges head-on and moved forward in a realistic way, appreciating both the big and the little things which came his way each day.

I've met two other people recently who strike me in the same way. David and I talked recently with a local pastor who had a near-death experience in a diving accident which made him a paraplegic and an instant Christian. He is currently running for City Council, with considerable help from his brother, other relatives and friends.

I also met one of the Hoggard's neighbors, a woman who has severe arthritis of a rare form which is fusing her spine and deforming her body. Her hips were both replaced when she was relatively young. She and her husband adopted a little girl from overseas a few years ago. The girl, now 8, is the focus of a lot of love. Her mom also keeps busy volunteering for the Catholic church. She speaks with great enthusiasm about her life, even expressing gratitude for her disability.

A former neighbor of ours, Mrs. Rambo the "garden lady", similarly made me feel good just being around her. She also had debilitating pain in her spine. She and her husband had lost their only daughter when she was just a girl. I lost track of her when she went into a nursing home near an "adopted" - unrelated - niece in Tulare. She fought the move as long as she could. Her little house is just not the same without all the exuberant flowers she tended there. She made a difference in my life. She radiated both gratitude and a kind of determination to live a fulfilling life. She "thrilled" at the sound of a rooster crowing, as it reminded her of ranch life. She took joy in every flower in her garden and every person she knew.

Dennis Prager interviewed his mother for the first time on his Happiness Hour last Friday. It was her birthday. She and her husband look forward to each day, ignoring the aches and pains of age. She provided some fascinating insights into life in the past as an Orthodox Jew in New York City. Things have really changed. She thinks she was "born happy", though she has had several challenges - a deaf mother and the murder of a grandfather, for example.

Dennis' old friend Father Gregory called to speak with her. His call reminded me of the old days when Dennis moderated the "Religion on the Line" radio program in Los Angeles. The clergy got along with each other remarkably well, laughed together and supported each other despite their theological differences. There was a core set of values which they shared and which they helped each other express to listeners. They also seemed to be a notably grateful group of people.

Wretchard put a note of gratitude and comfort into his post on Dean Barnett's death. It could apply to many other people we cherish and are grateful for, and probably even to to my difficulty in throwing away old things which have meaning to me:

"Sometimes relatives put off cleaning out the room or packing up the effects of the deceased because it almost seems as if they’ll come back. Just you wait.

The time to clean up comes when we realize that even memory is not necessary for love. Nothing is futile. Just you wait."

Monday, September 1, 2008

Emergency vehicles on our little corner - again

Last night I was leaving to feed Katie Cat while her family was gone. There was a fire truck by our house. Again.

Living on the edge of a small town (in an area once left to black families) is not like living in the city, or even in the middle of town. Not that I didn't ever have any "emergency" situations in Southern California. Once I saw what I thought was a dead man on the landlord's lawn. But he was a dead-drunk teenager. And I had a police helicopter visit once when a guy the police was chasing left his sandals in my flowerpot and said I had invited him into my backyard. The police woke me up to get a statement.

But we still seem to get an unusual number of emegency vehicles out here. There was the brush fire (caused by a transformer explosion and drooping wires) before the houses next door were built. Firetrucks were at our house half the night. And there have been fires plus a smoldering roof a little further away, and several attempts at burning down a tiny abandoned church down the road. The last attempt was successful. Emergency vehicles stage at our house when investigating situations up or down the cross street, or near our fire hydrant in case of a big fire.

Our big old dog Sparky hates emergency vehicles after living with a violent man who had frequent police visits. But he is protective, and used to stand by the fence and bark sternly during services at the little church across the street, in an apparent determination to protect the congregation from their loudly amplified, excited pastor. A few years ago Sparky was sent running from the spot where he protected the congregation. Fire trucks scared brave Sparky into cowering silence as they responded during a Wednesday night service that got a little too spirited. Normally, the dogs all howl at emergency vehicles on nearby roads, headed out of town for the surprisingly frequent incidents which happen in the country: explosions, fires, people acting crazy out by a canal, downed power lines or car crashes (often solo) involving people who get reckless because they feel less restrained than they would in town.

And we seem to get peripherally involved in a lot of police and social services matters. A woman came running to the house one night from way down the street, through the goathead stickers (toritos), in bare feet, to call the police because her son had been beaten up. A mother descending into psychosis wanted to leave her little daughter with us because she thought ghosts were after her. We see kids who look like they are at risk wandering in or near the fields, and sometimes a kid will show up to use the phone. The police once mistakenly believed that I was the woman who threatened a neighbor because she thought there was an affair going on between the neighbor and her husband (after all, the neighbor had picked up the accuser's son for football practice while driving her own nephew and other boys to the practice - proof positive of an affair with the accuser's husband). An absentee landlady came here for help after her property was broken into.

Francisco once brought us a gun he had found in a woodpile, which turned out to have been used in a shooting. We got two detectives casing out the house before four officers responded to my report - they had been looking for that gun. It looked like one of those old pirate guns, but was a sawed-off shotgun with the butt altered to resemble a pistol grip.

Last night, it was just a bad case of dehydration. A woman was taken to the hospital. She's part of the black family next door, and I'm ashamed to say I don't even know how many people live there. I have talked to the woman before, but she seems reserved with me. The husband and wife both talk to David sometimes.

They seem more oriented to socializing with other blacks, though. The black guy up the street who always wears a cowboy hat stopped his truck and went to investigate when he saw the fire truck and ambulance. The older man who tools around in a motorized wheelchair stopped by. too. He told me that "Janice's daughter" had been taken to the hospital, like he expected me to know who "Janice" was. The man in the wheelchair knows us. David helped get the ball rolling on the city's bargain with him to provide him with a livable home in exchange for the title to the property when he's gone (at least, I think that's the deal they made).

But our next-door neighbors haven't introduced themselves to another black woman, our friend Emma, who lives directly across the street from them. Their loss. Seems like "city" behavior to me. Sometimes it helps out here to know who your neighbors are.

Last night was a refreshingly routine emergency. Slowly our neighboorhood is becoming more "citified" and routine-ized. We also don't have a flock of chickens show up on our porch every morning any more. And it's been a long time since there's been a big hog loose in the neighborhood.

Maybe soon, some of those emergency calls for unusual events will be a little further out of town, as new building fills in the wild, semi-natural spots in our neighborhood. Some of the wildness we will miss. And I prefer the type of civil disorder we now get to the type in inner cities that we read about.